Heart & Relationships · Research-based
Communication Style
Most hard conversations go wrong in one of four places: the thing never gets said, it gets said too sharply, feelings stay hidden, or nobody feels heard. Everyone has a different mix of strengths here.
You'll rate 40 short statements on four scales: speaking up, how your words land, opening up, and hearing others. About five minutes. Answer for how you usually are with the people in your life.
Questions from four public-domain IPIP scales: IPIP-VIA Valor, HEXACO Gentleness, TCI Self-Disclosure and AB5C Understanding, a few gently reworded. It's about style, not listening skill. Results show your own answers, not a comparison with other people. Your answers stay in this browser.